Housework is an unavoidable, time-consuming labour-intensive reality of adulthood. Whether you own your own home or rent, live alone, with friends, strangers or family members, the house-keeping tasks that make a house a home need doing.
The part that home-making plays in a person’s work-life balance varies from person to person.
The subject of “domesticity” doesn’t always come up when I interview people about how they balance their work with everything else in their life.
For some, home-making forms part of a person’s ambition; for others it’s a chore that stokes up emotions of guilt and resentment. And in some cases, it just doesn’t come up at all as part of the work-life balance equation.

Preparing this podcast episode raised more questions than answers as I reflected on the patterns I’ve observed on the impact that housework, home-making, and domesticity have on a person’s work:life ratio, including:
- Why the subject of housework stirs up such strong emotions, particularly for women.
- Why more women than men seem to bring up the subject of domesticity when I interview them about how they balance work with other things in life.
- Whether housework only starts impacting a woman’s sense of balance after she becomes a carer or parent.
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